Next...

We decided that our next step is to Foster/Adopt. We were very hesitant with the thought of fostering, with all of the stigmas out there. Our caseworker suggested that we look at their website and see if we are interested. We decided to go to an orientation where they explain everything in detail and have others there who have already foster/adopted to talk to you and answer questions. We were very worried about getting a child taken away but after the orientation we felt like we should try this route also. We still are hoping to get a newborn or at least no older than a 2. We've turned in a bunch of paperwork and just have to complete their specific training and then we will be on their list as well as LDSFS. We will see what happens next...

Other than that we've just been up to our normal routines.

Chiefs award

Last night Daniel and I attended a nice awards banquet that the Santa Ana Police were hosting and giving awards to people that have done commendable things in and for the city. Daniel was given a Chiefs Award along with the rest of his SWAT Medic team for their help on SWAT call outs. Due to them going Orange County and Santa Ana's financial problems, the City eliminated the SWAT Medic program. Daniel was kind of bummed but understood. Things are still kind of crazy getting ready for the transition on the 20th. For now Daniel will be staying in the city of Santa Ana working with other guys that he knows but after about 6 months or so he could get moved somewhere else. But just knowing that he still has a job is comforting in these crazy economic times. As a side note, in Forbes magazine Santa Ana is known as one of the safest cities in the U.S.- who would have thought?!!

We had a fun Easter with family this year.

Hope everyone had a great Easter too!

When I saw this on Pintrest it completely expresses the way Daniel and I have been feeling. For quite some time Daniel and I tried to have another baby. It's definitely a roller coaster of emotions and so was giving up. You see many of your friends and family members getting pregnant and having more kids which I am grateful for because I get more nieces and nephews but it kind of pulls on your heart strings. There are many times you hide tears and feel guilty for not being able to give your one and only child siblings. Meanwhile, your child wonders why he doesn't have a brother or sister when all of his cousins and friends do. You have to go into why Mommy's tummy doesn't work anymore while trying to hold back tears.

Daniel and I have thought of it long and hard, prayed and fasted, consulted with experts, friends and LDS family services and have decided to try to adopt. We know that we will be in for another roller coaster ride of emotions but hopefully this one will have a happier ending. We are ever so grateful to have Cody already and love him more than words can express. He is one of the reasons we want to have another baby/child in our family. We hope you will keep us in your thoughts and prayers as we are now officially approved and will just be waiting to be picked.

Well, it's official. If you haven't heard yet Santa Ana fire will be no more as of April 20th. All of Santa Ana's guys will be picked up and hired by Orange County Fire Authority. The city of Santa Ana was in pretty bad shape, money wise (who isn't now days!) so instead of lay-offs they agreed to let OCFA come in and take over services. Santa Ana has had it's own Fire Department for 128 years so it's kind of sad to the guys. I guess OCFA really wanted to get Santa Ana a part of their county territory. I won't complain one bit we are just glad that Daniel has a job. He will be staying in Santa Ana to work but he will be at a different station. The sad part is he may never see some of the guys he's worked with for the past 8 years. There is going to be a lot of adjustments in the city and personal. This has been a major stressor at home (mostly with me) and it's good to finally be in the loop about what's going on. So I guess I will becoming a proud OCFA wife. It's going to take a while to get use to that.

So crazy and 8!

It has taken me awhile to get pictures up of what we have been doing around our home. The major thing was that Cody turned 8 and was baptized! He was very excited. A lot of planning went into the baptism and not only by me. A good friend helped out a ton on invitations and decor. We were also able to bring our next door neighbor, Debbie. She was just baptized Catholic so it was nice to have her there supporting Cody. We thank all of you who attended as well. He received his first pair of scriptures and his first suit that he likes to wear because after all, he wants to be just like Daddy!  

 After the baptism we got home and quickly began setting up for the next event, Cody's birthday party. Yes, I am crazy enough to do both events on the same day!
He wanted an Angry Birds party. I was able to find a lot of ideas online. But one of the big jobs was taping a bunch of Angry Bird faces to balloons. Luckily I had my Mom, sister and two sister-in-laws there to help out. I really appreciated all of you who helped out. I took on more than I should have.

A few other things that have been taking place are:
 Daniel finished some cement jobs with the help of a ward friend, he put in a new gate and built a shed in our backyard. Ah, ya know, just a few small jobs...He was pretty busy but he also had the help of his Dad, brothers and some friends.

 Me on the other hand, I was busy painting Cody's room and with the help of my handy-woman sister, Autumn, we managed to put a bunk bed together. Cody absolutely loves his bunk bed. He has no problems going to sleep anymore. It's funny but he actually likes going to bed now. I am not going to complain!! All the work was worth it! Since Cody doesn't have any siblings we've discussed sleep- overs since he has the extra bed. I don't know if I am ready for that yet...

We would really like to say thanks again to all of you who came and supported Cody. It meant a lot to us. We had a lot of fun with everyone.
I am so glad that my parents and brother and sister-in-law, Emily could come from Utah. To my other sister-in-law, Krystal, I am glad that the plans worked out so that you could be in town for the festivities even tho Derek couldn't make it! I love seeing your cute family.

Ouch

Poor Cody had to have a tooth extracted this week. He did really well and laid there in the chair for over an hour while the dentist took the one tooth out and filled in another cavity. But it's not over...we have to go back in two weeks for 2 more fillings.